In the Big Fish in a Small Pond approach, there’s no such thing as an independent, standalone pond.
The idea is to be a “Big Fish” by putting the majority of your efforts in life into “Small Ponds,” i.e.
- where your authority is clear, even when you are not the sole authority or the leading authority
- where you lead more often that you follow
- where you are often responsible for others, but seldom responsible to others
The idea is not to be the only fish in a pond. Because that’s largely impossible.
For example, it’s probably a pretty safe bet that this blog is the only blog on earth where someone shares his harebrained ideas about using the principles he learned in business publishing as a guide to life. That makes this blog a perfect example of a small pond, and makes me the perfect definition of the big fish therein.
But this blog, this small pond, exists in relation to other small ponds. Small ponds are like that. They can be subsets of larger ponds. They can adjoin other small ponds. There is overlap between and among small ponds.
In that sense, The Big Fish in a Small Pond blog is best understood in relation to other ponds. You can think of BFSP as part of the media blogosphere, where people talk about subsets of the publishing world. You can think of BFSP as connected to the lifehacking movement or the larger world of personal-finance writers too. And of course both those worlds are full of Big Fish who have carved out their own niches.
Minimalism can be hard to explain. But in a nutshell it involves the adoption of a less-is-more, anti-consumerism, freedom-first approach to life. Reducing clutter and debt are key. Tiny homes and Zen aesthetics are factors.
Perhaps the connections between minimalism and BFSP are clear only to me. But I see both of them as lifestyle approaches aimed at increasing happiness by removing things that tend to control us. Self-sufficiency and self-esteem are aims of both. Success in the personal sense, rather than worldly sense, is the goal. The strategies in both require maximizing the authority, independence and leadership you wield by not getting trapped by those things (debt, soul-crushing jobs and an obsession with wealth accumulation in particular) that can take authority over us, make us grow dependent upon them, and lead us by the nose to places we would not choose to go of our own accord.
As you consider whether the BFSP approach would work for you, it’s wise to remember this concept of connected ponds. It’s unlikely you’ll find many places in your life where you’re the only authority, where you always lead, and where you’re never responsible to anyone else but you. No man is an island. Nor should he wish to be. But everyone can be a big fish in a small pond.
If you’re interested in learning about minimalism feel free to read this article I wrote for Policy Genius about minimalism and personal finance. Or subscribe to the Big Fish in a Small Pond newsletter.
— Paul Conley